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Safe Space was created by Kimberly Day, LMHC, CCPS to support women who are experiencing, and who are healing from, destructive and confusing patterns in their relationships. 

Based on real life experiences and therapy practices, content was created to educate women and to encourage them in becoming more discerning of what is true in their relationships, and more empowered in their personal choices. Other therapists, coaches and professionals have contributed content designed to support women in many different ways as they navigate their course forward. 

Goals of Safe Space

  1. To Build up women to be more discerning of what is true in their relationships and more empowered in their choices
  2. To Build more awareness around the cultural values that maintain and promote the exploitation of women in relationships and to advocate for change
  3. To Promote healthier relationships with self and others through courage, compassion, and integrity

Safe Space is set up like an ‘Inn’ or a Peaceful retreat, with various rooms focusing on the different domains of well-being

Take our Mini-Assessment

We’ve made this mini-assessment to offer a suggestion of which room(s) you may wish to begin exploring, based on your own current situation, or the relationship dynamics you hope to get clarity on. There is so much content it can be hard to know where to start!     

Made up of 27 questions, this mini-assessment is a shorter version of Kim’s Relationship Assessment to help women recognize specific parts of their life and relationship that could improve.

The full assessment is a lengthier and much more in-depth assessment, and can be purchased with a 1.5 hour one on one assessment review consultation with a clinician, or with our next group session of the Unhealthy Relationship Dynamics Assessment and class. 

Where do I start? Mini Assessment

My partner sometimes scares me by coming too close, yelling, or swearing at me

My partner makes frightening or intimidating statements to get me to do what he/she wants

My partner has threatened (or implied a threat) to myself or others I care for (including pets)

My partner has intentionally destroyed my things or threatened to do so

I feel coerced by my partner to have sex even when he or she knows I do not want to

I have sex with my partner when I do not want to, to avoid his/her anger, silent treatment, resentment, or other form of "punishment"

My partner does not care about my comfort or experience during sex

I am criticized or devalued by my partner for my sexuality, lack of sexuality, or sexual "performance"

My partner uses what he/she knows I hold sacred in order to get me to do what he/she wants

My partner twists religious doctrines or ideas to try to manipulate me

My partner uses spiritual or religious argument to suggest my feelings are bad or wrong

My partner uses scripture and/or doctrine to try to make me feel bad, sinful, or worthless

My partner has limited or blocked my access to financial resources

My partner controls the money I make or my ability to make money

My partner restricts my ability to pursue my work or educational goals

My partner discourages me from, or makes it difficult for me to pursue work or a career

I feel my partner uses my commitment to the relationship to manipulate me

My partner threatens to (or implies he/she will) leave if I do not do as he/she wants

My partner withholds his/her approval and affection to get me to do what he/she wants

My partner's feelings always or almost always take precedent over mine

My partner gets highly reactive if I disagree with him/her even when I do so respectfully

My ideas or opinions are attacked

My partner regularly interrupts me when I am talking

I don't feel like I can trust my partner

Our Memberships

We currently offer Safe Space Basic membership which includes all our resources, regular content updates, and a Members-only Podcast, plus you’ll have the option to join our Private Facebook group and attend a group zoom meeting once a month.

Check back regularly to see when we release new Membership options!

If you would like to learn more about our Sponsorship Program, or make a one-time donation, please click the button below

 

Not sure if this is right for you yet? Join our Interest List to learn more about Safe Space and get a coupon for your first month!

Safe Space: Basic

Charged Annually ($250)
$45
$ 20
83
Month
  • Access to All Rooms
  • Regular Content Updates
  • Access to Members-Only Podcast
  • Access to the Private Facebook Group
  • Monthly Support Group meeting

Safe Space: Basic

Charged Monthly
$45
$ 24
95
Month
  • Access to All Rooms
  • Regular Content Updates
  • Access to Members-Only Podcast
  • Access to the Private Facebook Group
  • Monthly support group meeting

*Safe Space is not intended to replace healthcare or therapy

Additional Memberships

Gaslighting Educational & Support Group

This membership includes everything in the Safe Space Basic Membership, plus a weekly group session over Zoom.

Safe Space’s Gaslighting group subscription is meant to provide an environment for learning and growth and for members to receive perspectives and suggestions related to their own personal situations as well as receive the validation and support provided by others in a group setting.

Available sessions: Mondays 9:15am PST (10:15am MST)

Gaslighting Educational & Support Group

$ 120 Month
  • Gaslighting Group Meetings Weekly
  • Access to All Rooms
  • Regular Content Updates
  • Access to Members-Only Podcast
  • Access to the Private Facebook Group
  • Monthly Support Group meeting

*Safe Space is not intended to replace healthcare or therapy

Add-Ons to Customize Your Membership

Just like no one person is the same, no one’s journey is the same. So here at Safe Space, we have created Add-ons that you can add to your Safe Space Basic or Sponsor Membership to customize your content.

Because you can start or stop these Add-ons whenever you like, you have total control!

Full Assessment

One-Time Add-On
$ 95-295
  • Access to the Full Unhealthy Relational Dynamics Assessment
  • A review with a qualified Therapist about your results

*Safe Space is not intended to replace healthcare or therapy

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